google-site-verification=u1wqb26rtFD0wgsY22duUExEx-GfRssNKOjB8s645ug BEM STAI DR KHEZ MUTTAQIEN: CONTROL LUST

Saturday, 24 October 2015

CONTROL LUST

"Do not go near adultery, because sesun really about her dirty deeds and the way is not very good." (Qur'an, Al-Isra ': 32)
Sahl ibn Sa'd said: Messenger of Allah said: "Who guarantees me what is between the two beard and two legs then I assure him of heaven." (HR. Bukhari)
1.a. KEEPING PUBIC
Adab dressed in Islam:
1. Should the brothers hold the entire private parts and as well as sisters. "Say to those who believe men: let them bowed his sebahagian view and keep his cock; for he is clean for them. Verily Allah Mahameneliti to anything you do. (An-Nur: 30)
"O Children of Adam! We have sent down to clothing to cover your nakedness and beautiful clothes to jewelry. Piety and clothing that is the most good. Such are some of the signs of God's power, hopefully they will always remember. "(Qur'an, Al-Araf 7:26)
May not use the clothes and thin form that displays genitalia.
"Indeed, experts of hell, namely women dressed but naked, leaning to the immoral and attract others to commit adultery. They will not enter Paradise and will not smell it. "(Reported by Muslim)
2. No dressing with arrogant intent
Prophet. said: God does not see the pan-invitation mercy against those who degrade over ankle holster for pride. "(HR. Bukhari, Muslim)
3. Brotherhood does not resemble sisters and vice versa
Prophet. never count people are cursed in this world and welcomed also by the Angel of whom are men that are God made really a man, but he made himself as a woman and resemble women, and the second, is female was created by God as a female really, but then he made himself as male and resemble males (HR. Thabarani)
4. The Brotherhood did not use gold jewelry and silk
Umar bin Alkhotthob r.a. said: Messenger of Allah. He said: You do not wear silk. So who does it in the world, will not wear it in the Hereafter. (Bukhari, Muslim)
Anas r.a. said: Messenger of Allah. have allowed for Azzubair and Abdurrahman bin Auf wear silk because they both suffered from itching. (Bukhari, Muslim) The goal is to education in order to maintain the high moral heroism male nature of any form of weakness and to eradicate the nature of extravagance.
5. Do not dress like a specialist clothing worn by infidels like Jews, Christians and idolaters. This Ummah both men and women should have its own characteristics both in things visible and hidden.
"Whoever imitates a people, then he is from them." (History Thabrani)
1.b. KEEP YOUR VIEWS
Adab relationships in Islam:
1. Intercourse should be intended to increase devotion to God
"O mankind, indeed We have created you from male and female and made you nations and tribes so that you know each other. Verily the noblest among you in the sight of Allah is the most pious among you. Surely Allah is Knower, Aware. "(QS. Al Hujurat 49:13)
2. Should the brothers hold the majority view and likewise with the sisters. Let subjecting the view of what is forbidden by Allah SWT. Because views can arouse lust and stimulate the culprit to fall into sin and ma'shiat. Therefore, the Qur'an gives a stern warning against the views of the wild.
"Say to the people Mu'min:" Let their gaze, and maintains his cock; and so it is purer for them, surely Allah is Aware of what they do. "(QS. An Nur [24]: 30) the word of the Prophet:
"That view is one of the arrows of the devil"
Two eyes that adultery and zinanya eyes is to see "(HR. Bukhari)
One lightening Islam was he allowed to see the sudden nature of the portion that should not be.
"From Jarir bin Abdullah, he said: I asked the Messenger of Allah. about seeing the sudden. So the Prophet replied: Palingkanlah that your eyes! "(HR. Muslim)
"O Ali! Do not let the view that one follows the other views. You should only be at first sight, while the next one should not be. "(HR. Ahmad, Abu Daud and Tirmidhi)
Women see men not the nakedness, the legal permissible, as long as not followed by orgasm or not feared would cause a scandal.
Most scholars assume that extremists, that women should not be seen at all the male members either. They brought the argument of the hadith narrated by former slave Nabhan Umm Salamah, that the Messenger of Allah. once said to Umm Salama and Maimunah who was Ibn Umm Maktoum broke into her home. The Prophet said: wear the veil. Then the two wives of the Prophet said: "He (Ibn Umm Maktoum) is blind!" So the Prophet replied: "What if he is blind, you are blind? Are not you both see it? "
But among experts tahqiq (people who are experts in the investigation of a hadith / opinions) said: This Hadith is not valid according to the hadith experts, because Nabhan who narrated this hadith one that what he said is unacceptable.
If this tradition is destined valid, is a tough stance Prophet to his wives because of their glory, as he was being tough on the issue of hijab.
3. Brotherhood does not hold sisters and vice versa
Prophet. once said the following: "It's the head of one of you pierced with a needle of iron, better than he touched a woman who is not lawful for him." (History Thabarani, Baihaqi and narrator-rawinya thabarani is trust)
Just stay away from women / men who do not keep this civilized.
4. Brethren and sisters must maintain a distance; should be limited to where they do not smell the fragrance of the opposite sex
"Any woman who wears perfume then passes through a people that they smell it, then she is considered adultery; and every eye there zinanya. "(History Nasa'i, Ibn Khuzaymah and Ibn Hibbaan)
5. "being alone" either in Zahir and emotionally.
We recommend that if you want a fairly long meeting, brothers and sisters bring a friend Ikhwan also bring a friend akhwatnya. Friends here are intended to be warned if he was hanging over the edge.
"Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, then she should never be alone with a woman who is not with mahram, because the three are saitan." (Reported by Ahmad)
6. All forms of association if arouse lust, then it is haram
1.c. Mahram
Men can only see the face and both hands of women who are there to rukhsah's viewpoint. This prohibition dikecuali-kan for 12 people:
1. Husband
2. Father, either paternal or maternal
3. The father-in-law
4. Child-son. As well as grandchildren, both of the boys or of girls
5. Children of her husband.
6. brother, either sibling, or the same mother sebapa
7. Nephew.
8. The good fellow female co-religionists in connection with nasab or others
9. Servant sahaya
10. Nephew of sister
11. People who come home that there is no sense bersyahwat
12. Young children are unlikely bersyahwat when looking female genitalia
Maraji '
Yusuf Qaradawi, Halal and Haram in Islam

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