Dutiful To Parents

1.a. ATTENTION PARENTS RIGHTS OF GOD
Worship Allah and do not associate him with anything. And do good to both the mother's father, a close relatives, orphans, the poor, neighbors close and far neighbors, peers, ibnus sabil, and a slave sahayamu. Surely Allah loves not the arrogant and boast themselves. (an Nisaa 4:36)
And your Lord has Ordered that you will not worship except Him, and let the mother do well with the best father. If one of the two or both until the age further in pemeliharaanmu, then occasionally do you say to both the word "ah" and do not yell at them and say to them a noble word. (Al Israa 17:23)
1.b. FADHAIL devote to MOTHER FATHER:
 Dedicated to the mother-father, including the preferred action
Abdullah bin Mas'ud ra. said: I asked the Messenger of Allah .: Is the ultimate act of charity? Prophet: Devoted to both the mother's father. I ask, then much less? He replied: Jihad (fighting in the way of Allah) (HR. Bukhari, Muslim)
 Dedicated to the mother-father, a great sin
Ibn Umar said: There was a man came to the Prophet Muhammad and said: "I have committed a great sin, is it possible that sin be forgiven?" The Messenger asked: "Are the two mother-father still alive?" The man with the sad answer "The two had died". He asked again: "Do you have your mother?" "Yes, it has," replied the man. Then returned the Prophet said: "Baktikanlah yourself to him". (HR. At Turmudzi, Ibn Hibbaan and Al-Hakim)
 Extendable age and bestowed sustenance
"Who wants to lengthen his age and fortune bestowed, he should devote to the mother-father and nurture the relationship". (HR. Ahmad)
 the pleasure of Allah in the pleasure of the mother-father
"Who made the mother-father fun and pleasure, then he has to make God happy and a pleasure to him. And whoever angered his parents, then it means he has made the wrath of God. "(HR. Ibn Najjar)
 efficacious prayer servant because of his devotion to the mother-father
1.c. THINGS TO RAISE CHILDREN BAKTI
Contemplate how great the sacrifice of a mother to her child.
"And we wasiatkan to humans in order to do good to both the mother-father. His mother had mengan-dungnya in difficult circumstances which increase steadily and give birth with difficulty, too. "(Qur'an, Al-Ahqaf 46:15)
"And we wasiatkan to humans in order to do good to the mother-father. His mother conceived him in a weakened state that increase steadily ". (QS. Luqman 31:14)
1.d. FORMS BIRRUL WALIDAIN
• Looking at parents with a view of love, loving and happy
"A child who looked to her parents with a view of love, will be recorded deeds of God as one who Hajj Mabrur" (HR Ar-Rafi'i and Al-Bayhaqi)
• Be gentle
"And recite the words of the noble father mother and humble yourselves against them with compassion and pray:" O my Robb, have mercy on both of them as both of them have educated me in little time. "(Qur'an, Al-Isra, 17: 23- 24)
Imam Al-Bukhari describes the word of God above. He said: "Be subject to the mother-father as a servant to his master hard and vicious."
"Do not you walk in front of him, do not sit before he sat down, do not you call by name, and do not you provoke anger." (HR. At-Thabarni)
• Ask permission before entering his room
"And if your children have reached the age of puberty, they must ask permission to you (to enter), as did those before them." (QS. An Nur 24:59)
• Standing greet the mother-father
"Siti Fatimah bint Apostle when he comes to visit the Prophet he rose to meet him, kiss and let the princess sat in his seat. Likewise, if the Prophet came to visit her baby, Fatimah woke up to meet him, kiss and let sit in her seat. "(HR. Abu Dawud and At-Turmudhi)
It is a form of adoration, humility and obedience to both or appearance of affection to both.
• Praying for mother-father (17: 23-24)
How good that you pray for the parents of each finished reading the shahada in prayer.
"Be grateful to Me and to your parents, only to receive from me everything will be back." (QS. Luqman 31:14)
"It's a slave abandoned by one or by both the mother-father, while he was in a state of lawlessness. But the children always pray and scrap-honkan forgiveness for them, so that God set her as a dutiful son to his parents. "(HR. Al-Bayhaqi)
• Pilgrimage to the tomb of the mother-father
"Those who make a pilgrimage to the tomb of his parents or one of the two on each Friday, then his sins will be forgiven by God and it is expressed as a dutiful son to his parents." (HR. At-Thabrani)
• Fostering good relations with fellow mother-father
Prophet. said, "Who would want to be associated with his father who had died, let him menghubu-NGI acquaintances and relatives of his father, after his father died." (HR. Abdur Razzaq)
Messenger of Allah said: "Verily, the most important filial piety is the relationship of the child with a good friend of his father's family." (HR. Muslim)
• Pay off debts both after both died
• Making good on his vow
A man from Bani Salamah asked, "O Messenger of Allah, whether the mother after my father died, there was still some service can I offer to both of them ...? Prophet. nodded and said: "Yes, by the way send a prayer for them, ask forgiveness, keep their promises and who never professed nadzar mother-father, maintaining relationships pal relationship and glorify them." (HR. Abu Dawud, Ibn Majah and Ibn Hibbaan)
• Do not cause the cursing to both
That the Prophet. He said: Instead of major sins is the one who cursed the father-mother. Companions asked: O Messenger of Allah is there any one who cursed father-mother? The Prophet replied: Yes. He cursing father of others, then returned swore at him cursing his father or mother found another man and swore on his mother's reply (HR. Bukhari, Muslim)
1.e. Modeling
• Bakti Prophet Ismail to Sayyidina Ibrahim
1.F. UQUQUL WALIDAIN
• disobedience to the mother-father including big sin
"One of the greatest sins kabir sight of Allah on the Day of Judgment is: associating partners with Allah, killing a believer is not according to the Shari'ah, to escape from the battlefield jihad fi sabilillah at the time of the raid, mendur-HAKAI keduaorangtua, accuse chaste women commit indecency, learn magic, eating money usury and eating treasure orphans. "(HR. Ibn Hibbaan)
• Forms uququl Walidain
: disobedient
 ignore
 hurt
 words are not pleasant
 underestimate
 looked with contempt view
 make sad
"Tears parents because children including iniquity." (HR. Al-Bukhari)
 eyes wide to both
"A child who widened his eyes to both parents, including children who do not worship." (HR. Al Bayhaqi and Ibn Mardawih)
 avoid both
"There is a class of servants were not consulted by Allah on the resurrection day, not seen, not cleaned nor purified". The Companions asked, "Who are they, O Messenger of Allah?" Answered by the Prophet, "That person away-right away from the mother-father and those who have an abundance of virtues of a people and he disown their virtues instead he distanced himself from them." (HR. Ahmad)
 not happy to the mother-father
"Three kinds of people who condemned Allah is, behavior-behavior that is not happy to both the mother-father, the man who tried to divide the life of husband and wife after the woman he marry and men who like peppering of words between the believers that they hate hate each other. "(HR. Ad Dailami)
 hit
"Seven classes of people that will not be seen by Allah on the Day of Judgment, not cleaned and not mixed with natural inhabitants of other, they are put into the fire first, unless they repent, God Berke-nan forgive them, those who marry with hands his (masturbation) that do and done, alcoholic, who beat the mother-father to both of them for help and those who commit adultery with his neighbor's wife "(HR. Al-Bayhaqi)
 disobey the mother-father friend
"Keep beloved father, do not you decide, do not let God extinguish your light." (HR. Al-Bukhari)
• Charitable deeds rebellious child will not be accepted
"Three groups of people who are not accepted his deeds, are: people who ascribed partners to Allah, the child who disobeys her parents and mujahid who fled from the battlefield." (HR. At-Thabarani)
• Haram disobedient to parents though unjust to him
"A Muslim who has both parents are Muslim, then he always applies charity towards them, then God was pleased to open the two doors of heaven for her. If he has a course, then he will get one door, if he exasperate his parents, then God will not bless him. Someone asked, "Although both menzaliminya?". The Prophet replied, "Yes, although both menzaliminya." (HR. Al-Bukhari)
Maraji '
Ahmad Isa Assyria, Birrul Waidail (Dedicated to Mother Father),
Sa'id Hawwa, Al Islam: System Morals
Imam Abu Zakaria Yahya bin Neural Annawawy, Tarjamah Riadhus Shalihin